Yes. You'd have had a husband. Thus, the conduct wouldn't be unbecoming.

[Because, of course, Robert Lutece entirely and completely advocates chastity outside of marriage. Whole-heartedly...

He has never carried on affairs before his jump to Columbia, never had any record of unbecoming behaviour. And certainly never engaged in anything questionable in Columbia. Or so he can damn well pretend to claim.

Even if both parties present know better than that, even simply based on allusions he's made to his history.]

I have no objections to literary romanticism, nor do I, I admit, have any say in her conduct, which is why I make no pretence of scolding her.