Do little things now and then is what I think one could do for the time being.

{ Sappy advice but safe advice all the same. No need to tell someone else how to do so and so. Not when she doesn't have the whole story. } Like... Hmmm. Simply be there if there are moments of difficulty that are noticeable. Or simple do it when it strikes your fancy.

From my experience that is always a big help for some. Not all but some.